Every November for the
past nine years, the Dearborn Academy gymnasium at the old Crosby
School is transformed into a banquet hall where students become
wait staff in the requisite black and white attire, and guests
are invited to learn about the extraordinary program and services
provided by Dearborn Academy, and to meet students who attend
the school.
Celebrating their students’ successes and raising funds
for future successes is what the Annual Dearborn Luncheon is
all about. “We are here today” said the 9th Annual
Luncheon Keynote Speaker Dr. Nancy Rappaport, “because
Dearborn makes a difference in kid’s lives.” An Assistant
Professor at Harvard Medical School and Director of School Based
Programs at Cambridge Health Alliance, Child Psychologist Dr.
Rappaport identified several key elements necessary to reach
students at risk. Ensuring safety, showcasing strengths, listening,
understanding, empowering them with the tools to succeed, helping
them to find their own voice, and most of all, caring. Children,
Rappaport reminded the audience, don’t read resumes, but
they know when someone cares.
These key elements were echoed in the stories of both of the
other speakers at the Luncheon - Dr. Cheryl Presley, who credits
her grandson’s current success to Dearborn Academy, and
Clayton Mejia, a 2006 graduate of the School.
“
Dearborn,” Dr. Presley said of her grandson’s experience, “was
the first place he felt at home.” Presley’s grandson
is now on route to graduate from his local public high school
in Michigan. When asked what to say about the school, he told
his grandmother “They taught me to think before I act,
and they cared about me.”
Clayton Mejia knew when he chose to attend Dearborn Academy
that he wanted to turn his life around. After a difficult transition
emigrating from the Dominic Republic at age seven, Clayton said
he had fallen in with some bad influences, did what he wanted
to do, was suspended from school ‘a billion times’ and
thought that he could not be successful. Still he wanted to graduate,
and although dubious that a small school like Dearborn would
be helpful, he decided it might be the best thing for him.
What he found at Dearborn was acceptance, and caring. “Every
student here has a problem” he said, “but the staff
is willing to help you all the time.” Staff helped Mejia
study for his citizenship exam, encouraged him to play basketball,
hired him during the summer, and continues to welcomes him back
as a graduate. “I haven’t left yet,” Mejia
says of Dearborn, “I’m always here, and the staff
is always interested in what I have to say and what I am doing.”
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Intensive, sustained support,” Rappaport concluded, “is
what is urgently needed. For students who are experiencing overwhelming
frustration due to a learning disability, who are in mental anguish
because of life circumstances, or mental health issues, and who
have failed over and over again. Intensive, sustained support
and ‘holding on to hope’ is what is needed and what
Dearborn is all about.
Located on Winter Street in Arlington, Dearborn Academy, a program
of Schools for Children, Inc., is one of New England’s
leading state-approved therapeutic day schools for children
and adolescents with learning, emotional and behavioral challenges.
The school currently enrolls over 100 students from over 45 communities.
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